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Started by Blade at 25,Aug,18 00:21  other posts of Blade
Does prolonged anal sex affect the Sphincter? Does it damage this area?

I'm asking because this topic came up, and we wondered if people who have anal sex for a while, such as a gay male, do they have issues later on with incontinence?

In other words, is the ass of someone who never had anal sex basically the same as someone who has it all the time? Or does that cause issues with your ass over time?

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By bustyman44dd at 02,May,20 16:11 other posts of bustyman44dd 
I like anal inflation and have so far got up to an 13 inch circumference and around 7-8 inches long (rugby ball shape) for a homemade internal dildo. I can push that size out easily nowadays but not take that size in without help!
The next day my anus is very loose and wiping is an issue when your hands slips too deep and you need more moist tissues than normal for clean up! It settles back a few days later and my anus re-tightens.
But the trained anus has memory and easily re-opens each time, gradually taking deeper and wider with practice...

By Smoothmann at 02,May,20 08:16 other posts of Smoothmann 
When I first started anal play,A 1" to 1.25" dildo was big for me.But after much lube and practice I could get a 1.5" dildo or plug in my ass and it felt great!Since then I have slowly worked up too 1.75" and 2"dildos and it feels great with the larger sizes.Please remember that you need too open up your ass with smaller sizes first and once the anal musule relaxes you can then take the larger sizes with no problems!It also keeps my hemoroids down to minimum!

By onthelose at 29,Apr,19 19:40 other posts of onthelose 
If you look at any anal porn at all you will see a lot of hemorrhoids. Check it out!

By spermkiss at 25,Aug,18 12:59 other posts of spermkiss 
The short answer is no. Taking a dick or a dick size item up the ass does no damage what-so-ever. One can do it multiple times a day, every day of one's life and one's asshole will still be just fine. Does it have any effect in the anal sphincter? Well yes, some. But it is not a bad effect. The normal condition of the sphincter is to be somewhat tensed to keep the opening closed. For anal sex the receptive party must learn to relax the sphincter for comfortable entry. This greater control can be a benefit. And you won't end up wearing diapers when you reach age sixty.

Moving on to industrial grade anal penetration. And I do mean fisting. Full disclosure: I have fisted a guy, almost to my elbow. I did it because he wanted me to, not because I wanted it. It did satisfy a certain intellectual curiosity I had about what it would be like to put my hand, wrist and most of my forearm up a guy's ass, but I didn't find it especially erotic. After I took out my hand, I put my dick in. One might think that this asshole would be so loose it would be like fucking an open window. But no, this guy had amazing anal control. He could open his ass to take a fist and then close it up around a dick to give his fucker a damn good fuck.

But I did wonder what happens later in life to guys who regularly get fisted. Apparently nothing. Sex advice columnist Dan Savage addressed this topic in his column "Savage Love" a few months ago. Proctologists he consulted claimed there was no real damage from this practice.

Since you're asking this question, I'm guessing you want to take it in the ass. If this is something you want, go for it and don't worry.
By Blade at 25,Aug,18 23:15 other posts of Blade 
Thanks for the excellent response. that all makes sense. I'm a little hesitant to belive fisting doesn't do anything though. That seems so hard on the asshole.
By spermkiss at 26,Aug,18 12:04 other posts of spermkiss 
Oh, I agree. Looking around the internet it's not difficult to find still photos and full motion videos of people (men mostly) who have stretched out their assholes to the point that they can take massive things up there, even as large as a two liter beverage bottle. There seems to be a competition as to who has the biggest asshole.

And I did wonder what the long term effects might be. For months I considered writing Dan Savage a letter with this question myself but I never got around to it. And then a letter from someone else with this very question popped up in his column. So good old Dan consulted with experts on assholes, proctologists, for his answer.

If you're not familiar with Dan Savage and his column "Savage Love", I recommend it without reservation. I stumbled upon it in a weekly tabloid almost on the day he began writing it more than twenty years ago. I now read it on the internet. Here's a little tidbit for you: He writes his column at Ann Landers's desk. After she passed away and her belongings were being auctioned off, he bought her desk. As he put it at the time, I grew up reading her column and I just had to have her desk. Well, so did I, Dan.
By Blade at 26,Aug,18 23:21 other posts of Blade 
ok, but these dudes with stretched out asses... They go to take a shit.. it just falls out? I'm not trying to be funny, I'm really curious on this. I personally don't care, but its one of those things that make you go... hummmmm.
By spermkiss at 27,Aug,18 12:37 other posts of spermkiss 
You've run up against the limit of my knowledge and I don't know the answer. Indeed, I've wondered about this very question myself. As you put it "'s one of those things that make you go...hummmmm." Yes, the asshole can be used as an orifice for sexual pleasure by both men and women. And yes, some people have an asshole fetish and delight in stretching out their assholes to accommodate huge objects. But the butt (sorry, I just couldn't resist that) is still the orifice thru which waste material exits the body. Hey, even Queen Elizabeth shits. So what happens when it's the time of day for a guy with a stretched out asshole to have a BM? 'Don't know.

Returning one more time to Dan Savage and "Savage Love", that column is a font of knowledge on things sexual. A lot of what I know I learned there. How 'bout writing him a letter and asking him?
By phart at 28,Aug,18 20:12 other posts of phart 
A friend of mine took the job of cleaning out a mobile home of a gay guy that was big,fat and took any dick he could get and was not shy about it.
The house trailer had a general nasty, shit smell.
But they put on mask and went on with their work.
All went ok with the cleaning out until they got to the spare bedroom.Now bear in mind this guy lived there for 3 years,the trailer was 3 years old.The guy tossed the landowner the title to the trailer and said merry Christmas. When they opened the door to the spare room it was over 2 foot deep in dirty BVD"S and fruit of the loom underware. They were shit stained. The landowner was intending to clean the trailer out and rent it out.The fire department got it for a practice burn. So did he have a problem with health or just had a wore out ass,who knows,but his mechanic said the car seat was stained Terriably.
If his rump was that nasty, I can't imagine how nasty the other guy was that wanted it so bad!
By Blade at 02,Sep,18 00:55 other posts of Blade 
Now, you don't hear these stories very often, if at all. So is this a freak occurance or not? Or is this something they hide for the rest of their lives normally?
By phart at 02,Sep,18 09:57 other posts of phart 
Honesty,I would think it is abnormal.But it is the truth as I worked for the fellow cutting grass and what not but since i have breathing issues he didn't get me involved in the job.
By spermkiss at 02,Sep,18 11:15 other posts of spermkiss 
Definitely abnormal, but it happens. Believe it or not, but there are people who are really into shit. Over the years I've even encountered photos posted by shitophiles on this very site. I don't look for them, but I've stumbled across them. I don't know if they violate guidelines of what can be posted here. (Hey, site administrator, care to weigh in on this?)

Another sex advice columnist (alas, I do not remember her name) discussed this in her column. She said that the shit lessons were the most difficult part of her sexology training. The educational photos the lecturer was showing were positively disgusting. Advice she gave to those into shit was smear it on your skin if you must, but don't eat. (But some do.)

By bella! at 02,Sep,18 11:29 other posts of bella! 
@ phart, Aren't you talking apples and oranges here?

The original poster as well as spermkiss are discussing whether it is possible for the sphincter muscle to be stretched to the point of it being useless. What you are talking about is a mental health disorder, hoarding. Hoarding is not specific to big, fat gay guys, it can be a problem with slim, petite straight women as well.

By #554098 at 01,Sep,18 23:48
I was introduced to anal sex by a delightful woman, and since then, have shared that same joy with a few others, with various strap-on toys, though never close to 'fist size!'
I sometimes play, alone, with toys, and over the years I find it has helped, rather than hurt.
Something like working out, a muscle, and it gets stronger.
Some research supports this, but I don't have those links just now. Google it!

By Lenatur at 01,Sep,18 04:22 other posts of Lenatur 
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