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Started by #121813 at 12,Nov,11 15:13
I'm a straight married guy that likes to suck cock, but oppertunities are rare. How can you know that it's ok to ask someone if you can suck thier cock?

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By #654634 at 27,Oct,21 16:35
There's no such thing as a being 'a straight guy that likes to suck cock' but to the question...

You never know it's ok unless you already know the guy is open to playing with other guys. If you're out and about and happen to see a guy that you really would like to approach the best advice I can give would be don't put a guy in an embarrassing situation and chances are great that he won't try to embarrass you. Look for the opportunity to presents itself and either drop a hint or simply ask if he plays with guys. 99% of the time the answer is just Yes or No without him causing a big scene.

One of most frustrating things I used to experience is seeing a hot guy and not taking a shot at letting him know I wanted his cock. Those situations leave you kicking yourself in the butt for hours afterwards. So now I go for it, but with caution and a plan, and even if the guy says no I'm content with that.

Just a for instance... I crossed paths with a married couple in a grocery store and the guy was drop dead gorgeous. I wasn't really even trying to hit on him because he was with his wife but I guess my eyes were locked in on his crouch area. When I looked up at his face he was looking directly into my eyes. His wife was busy looking at something on the shelf. Well for a split second I felt a bit embarrassed because he caught me staring, but to my surprise he smiled and said hi. I smiled back with a slight nod and licked my lips. A couple aisles later I see them again. This time he drop a business card in my shopping basket and I've been servicing his cock ever since.
By german_guy at 27,Oct,21 17:40 other posts of german_guy 
that'a nice way meeting a nice guy wish I had that situation too
By tb1 at 01,Dec,23 10:51 other posts of tb1 
Holy hell, that is a terrific idea. Safe too

By #708276 at 16,Jan,24 05:40
I should carry my business cards with me then

By dgraff at 29,Feb,20 03:06 other posts of dgraff 
I’m bold I just reach down and start fondling them if they don’t like it they will let you know 90 percent of the time gay or straight they like it and want more
By #652316 at 16,Oct,21 09:50
Which man could resist when You touch his crotch???
By knewbi at 02,Feb,22 19:58 other posts of knewbi 
Agreed!! Hell, just look at my crotch and I'd let them in.... Touching my crotch and I would EXPECT them to get at it...

By #275407 at 01,Feb,22 06:30
Tie him up, stick a gun to his head and tell him your going to suck his dick

By #660822 at 30,Jan,22 20:46
I frequent gay bathhouses. So everyone is naked (some try to be modest by wrapping a towel around their waist) and everyone wants the same thing: COCKSUCKING! I have never asked any one to suck their cock. Never! I simply put my lips on their cock and suck, suck, suck!

By leopoldij at 16,Jun,21 17:54 other posts of leopoldij 
Just ask: "Hello, would you like to have your chock sucked for free?"

Theoretically, one should be able to ask a similar question to everyone: "Hello, would you like to have your pussy licked for free?"

A no is a no. A yes is hooray!

Simple and easy. Unfortunately, religion and other parasitical conventions have made these questions very difficult to ask.
By #654634 at 27,Oct,21 16:36
It's the 'Embarrassment Factor' that concerns most people.

By #523015 at 25,Oct,21 08:13
Most guys will let you go down on them if they are sure it remains secret.

By #637145 at 20,Oct,21 17:41
I’m always in the mood to be sucked. With me, I would prefer you didn’t ask and just put my cock in your mouth. Bonus points if you manage to get in a few powerful sucks before I’m fully erect. That’s a different sensation.
By #523015 at 25,Oct,21 08:12
You literally just described my fantasy

By Greek18cm at 14,Oct,21 22:53 other posts of Greek18cm 
Hi. I am straight to so I will give you my perspective if you asked to suck my cock and how to do it.

First of all you don't know if it will be OK to ask. You can't k ow that for sure. If you know that this guy is gay or by and has experience on that then that's a little more promising for you to be OK to ask...

After that, you obviously asking how to propose without being annoyed. That also depends on how well you know the guy.

Variables could be more than enough to start analyzing them now.

Start by flattering his cock if you have seen it.

Then ask first if it is OK to touch it instead of having a blowjob.

One good excuse to show curiosity about not being or being circumsized.

Then you proceeded according to the responses. If the guy is close to you I suggest not to try anything and keep the social relationship but if you insist I belive the direct approach is the best.

Compliment your friends package and tell him that you craved for his cock... That's all

By cumn4u at 09,Oct,21 05:02 other posts of cumn4u 
By #653440 at 12,Oct,21 06:05
Yes where are

By Strongmember# at 16,Jun,21 02:55 other posts of Strongmember# 
get him inebriated

By #644322 at 13,Jun,21 10:04
I'm on several gay dating sites and wrote in my profiles about my cock sucking passion.
Men over 60 with uncircumcised cocks can ask me to give them a blowjob.
If the distance is not so far I say yes and suck their delicious old cocks.
By tb1 at 13,Jun,21 10:32 other posts of tb1 
You should be quite the popular guy
By #644322 at 15,Jun,21 13:54
Yes, I'm pretty well known to the elderly as the submissive cocksucker. Every weekend I have oral sex with different horny grandpas. I am downright addicted to it and want to please as many of them as possible with my mouth.

By #574505 at 13,Jun,21 13:32
To bad your not close to me you could suck mine

By DJS at 22,Oct,20 14:25 other posts of DJS 
I should imagine by opening your mouth,
By tb1 at 09,Jun,21 08:42 other posts of tb1 
By DJS at 12,Jun,21 06:12 other posts of DJS 
I thought everyone knew how todoodat
By tb1 at 12,Jun,21 09:40 other posts of tb1 

By tb1 at 12,Jun,21 11:56 other posts of tb1 
when did you learn how todoodat?
By DJS at 13,Jun,21 11:34 other posts of DJS 
58lol..12yrs old by my sister friend and I've never stopped doodatting
By tb1 at 13,Jun,21 18:00 other posts of tb1 

By Ablaze at 11,Jun,21 08:29 other posts of Ablaze 
If I think he will let me and I grab his bulge and start to knead it and when he gets hard just open his pants and put in my mouth.

By leopoldij at 08,Jun,21 15:04 other posts of leopoldij 
I guess you'd ask this way: "Is it ok if I sucked your cock?" If he says yes, go for it. If he says no, move to the next one
If you ask 20 people you're bound to succeed.

By #628156 at 22,Oct,20 20:32

By #627439 at 22,Oct,20 01:47
I’m craving two hard cocks, suck and fucked

By #621421 at 10,Jul,20 19:55
Well first of all I ask him at internet at first.Try looking at gay dating sites first.If cant find then go to clubs or bars.Approach hot men in toilets and ask if they want a free bj

By #611458 at 27,Mar,20 00:21
See below. LIX has never been refused.

By #485312 at 26,Mar,20 20:50
You say, 'hey dude, can l suck your cock', and the dude will drop his pants, too easy *Lix*

By #613707 at 23,Mar,20 15:42
You don't.Especially not a straight man because you have to be submissive not aggressive. If they are interested, they will start with innuendos or telling you if the topic arises, oh,I'd like to knock her tonsils down her throat.
Innuendos, one a man told me, "My balls hurt do bad,I'd fuck a snake's mouth if domeone held it's mouth open".
Of course, then I told him, "noone has to hold my mouth open". And didn't take him long to bury his cock in my throat and yeah,fuck my throat.
But one mwm I met at Burger King, a truckdriver sat and ate breakfast with me.I was on my way hone from 3rd shift.He followed me out and asked me if I'd like yo look at his truck cab.I said, yeah but for what? He said,I'm going to let you suck my cock.
He had a grower 10x 7 1/2 long as my firearm, thicker than my wrist and the head was about 7 3/4 around. Never had so much cock in my throat and he had hyperspermia,he literally shot a glass of cum I'll inyo my throat. It was pouring out the sides of my mouth strings of it and out if my burning nose.
Don't ask them, but look for cues. They will call the shots. Anything else more is basically harassment, and no one wants to be harassed.

By onthelose at 02,Mar,20 00:25 other posts of onthelose 
Well we are back and the motel stay didn't go as I hoped. We talked about cock sucking by women and men. I said I liked men best. He said have you ever? I said yes why not? He said he didn't like that and that was the end of it. I have not seen his cock . A mutual friend has and told me.

By onthelose at 29,Feb,20 19:58 other posts of onthelose 
Im going on a trip to California with a friend today. We go to this event often. He has a nine inch cock and I really want to suck him. He is straight, he says, and comes out of the shower with his boxers on. I dont know how to start off. We do talk sex a lot but all straight sex. I wonder if he just thinks I am straight. He doesn't know I am Bi. I started coming out of the shower naked when we were at the motel but he didn't act like he noticed.
By kebmo at 29,Feb,20 21:00 other posts of kebmo 
Because you know he has a nine inch cock you've obviously seen it. While you're there and maybe after a few drinks just ask if you can have a good look at his beast. Appeal to his ego about the size of it. Ask him if his wife is comfortable with the size, how much of it can she fit into her mouth? Tell him it's the biggest one you've ever seen and if he shows you just put it in your hand with your face close to examine it. Turn it over in your hand, squeeze it then when it starts growing, and it will, put it in your mouth. I doubt he would object to that and if he does it won't be too strongly.
I do think that a few drinks to relax both of you is key to this whole plan.
I hope it works out for you and please do let me know if it happens.

Good luck!

By cumcouplessa at 29,Feb,20 15:13 other posts of cumcouplessa 
Hubby here. I have found it easier to approach the subject when talking on whatsup. You can throw a hint here and there and judge their reaction. If the guy isnt keen, he will say so straight away, and you can post a smiley face, to let him think you were joking. If he is keen, he will play along and you can just come straight out and let him know that when you see him next, you'll be swallowing

By kebmo at 28,Feb,20 21:58 other posts of kebmo 
Once I asked a guy if he was circumcised and when he said yes I asked if I could see it. He showed me and I put it in my hand and examined it then it went right into my mouth. No problem on his end. Regardless of the answer your response would be the same; can I see it?

Twice I was drinking with guys and I just said "We should get naked" and we did. If they didn't want to they would just say so. No harm done.

Note that in all three of these situations I did not ask if I could suck his cock. It was assumed.
By CAT at 28,Feb,20 22:50 other posts of CAT 
I think Kebmo is right. It's an understood part of playing around. At most, I'll tell someone my coffee needs cream.

By #550094 at 09,Feb,18 03:26
1. long time Friendship.

2. watching porn together.

3. TRUST, Discretion, and confidentiality.

4. Maintain sense of masculinity.

About #4: if you act submissive or effeminate
leading up to that moment, it might turn the guy off
thus making him feel even more squeamish about you.

I dunno how else to put it, because I've never asked
a guy (gay or straight) if I can suck his cock.
Easier said than done.

But if it happens, keep it confidential between you two.
What happens in the privacy of your home or his
should Stay there.

I personally do not believe that you sucking a
man's cock or having a man suck your cock will
"make you gay".
But, for many men, it's a stigma of a kind.
Getting past that stigma is the first hurdle.
The rest will come as it plays out.

It's just two guys having their male bonding moment,
simple Man-to-Man fun between confidant buddies.
By #610717 at 28,Feb,20 20:45
Acting submissive or effeminate not necessarily will turn a 'straight' guy down. I'm 95% into girls and 5% into slim, small and effeminate boys... that makes me SO HORNY. Maybe because I'm strictly dominant.

By onthelose at 28,Feb,20 18:40 other posts of onthelose 
Just my predicament exactly. That's why I started to go to the bath house. Now closed. I guessed that most men there were interested in some kind of sex. I just talked up someone who I connected with and made the first move. That's absolutely essential because most men are afraid to do anything. After that it is usually game on for sex. Of course some men are so conflicted by what they have been taught, RELIGION, that they cant do anything with out feeling like they are doing something wrong. I really feel sorry for them.

By #576878 at 14,Jan,19 15:55
I had this opportunity to ask and used it nicely. I was at a party with my friends. We got pretty drunk and there was shortage on girls there.I noticed my friend alone without a girl, so I went to speak with him.Wihtout a lot of talking I offered him blowjob and guaranteed he likes it. He was drunk and followed me to the bathroom. We got in and locked ourselves.I pulled his pants down and started sucking. He had his eyes closed whole time. I think he imagined hot girl blowing him.Soon I felt him reaching orgasm and he ejaculate d in my mouth.I cleaned his dick with my lips and spat out his load in a toilet. He left first, then me.

By #550003 at 09,Feb,18 18:37
Last time I just asked straight out. I had just been swimming at the beach and walked up to the surf club to have a shower and get changed when i went into the shower room there was a surfie looking guy abot 22yo stark naked having a shower he had a beautiful cut 9" dick.I couldnt stop looking at it and he kinda saw that i was looking so i thought fuck it and just said "can I suck that big dick of yours" next minute we were in a cublicle with his cock sliding down my throat until he shot a load. Definatly worth asking.
By #549651 at 14,Feb,18 10:47
That's perfect. Always best to be direct, I say. 😉

By lawrenceo at 11,Feb,18 10:18 other posts of lawrenceo 
Please will you let me suck your cock sometime when you fancy it?

By #460385 at 09,Feb,18 17:44
Ask him when it's already in your mouth. Maybe he will understand better.

By thebeewolf at 09,Feb,18 17:28 other posts of thebeewolf 
Watching porn together probably creates the best opportunities. Once there are erections, even in pants, things are headed in the right direction. Once there are visible penises, unzipped and everything, you're almost certain to go further. At least you'll get to touch his penis. If you get that far, his erect penis in your hand while he's horny as fuck watching porn... it's just one small step before you end up throating that dick until he sperms in your mouth.

I wish more guys would ask me. I've only ever been asked once in person (not online). Wait.. I need to blog about that!

By JustWill at 09,Feb,18 17:06 other posts of JustWill 
You start by saying something like, "Excuse me, Sir, but can I ask to suck your cock?"

If he says "No", then it is not okay.

By #218812 at 18,Mar,13 22:20
This is exactly how I did it. First I pick the bud of mine I suspected would most likely do it. Then I envited him to my house. So it was just me and himin my basement. Then we got drunk. Then I just started pplaying with my dick. So then he started playing with mine. Then I pulled mine out and he soon followed. Then I asked to compare dicks with him. I then asked him to give me a dutch rudder (look it up). Then he actually made the next moveby just ggrabbing my dick. It was the best feeling. So I returned the favor. So there we were sitting on the couch jacking each other off at the same time. Now he askes " would you blow me, to see if it feels like a girl?" I said yeah if you return the favor. He did. Before he came he warned me so I stoped sucki g and just jacked him more and he shot his cum and it ran all over my hand. I did the same for him. I'm glad I dared to ask bec
By #264896 at 19,Mar,13 03:37
I invited a friend over to watch a homemade video I had of my wife masturbating. I had an idea he might be receptive, and after about 10 minutes of my wife rubbing her pussy on the big screen his jeans were about to rip open. I kept watching the TV and the bulge in his pants, and he slowly began to rub his dick in his jeans in front of me.

I asked if he'd fuck my wife, and he said "hell yes". I asked if he wanted to jerk off watching her, and he unzipped his jeans and pulled out a rock hard 7" cut cock. It was totally amazing to watch another guy masturbate to my wife .. I think it was the horniest thing I'd ever done.

After a few minutes I asked if I could touch it, and he took his hand away. I stroked him for maybe 5 minutes, and he kept saying how bad he wanted to fuck my wife. Out of the clear blue he said "you can suck it if you want, I don't mind at all." It was amazing.

So, all I did was ask another married guy if he wanted to see a homemade video of my wife. I guess it could have gone another direction with him sitting passively and never acknowledging his hard dick. By the way, the tape had audio and my wife is a fantastic moaner. Her orgasms are porn star quality and her pussy gets soaking wet.
By #362273 at 26,Mar,13 03:46
If you had invited me over and I was watching your wife masturbate I easily would have also let you suck my cock and i would have sucked yours!
By #449239 at 14,Feb,14 02:47
hell ill let any guy suck my cock if he swallows and deep throats it,i think guys sometimes suck as good as some females..where can i meet you to suck me off..

By #434591 at 12,Feb,14 19:56
You play with him and to.uch his cock. he will like it

By #389093 at 23,Jun,13 23:37
i like to suck my cock so much i m trying to suck but my cock is so small just 11 cm i suck just heads my cock

By #358284 at 23,Jun,13 13:09
Tricky question.

By #211891 at 23,Jun,13 11:24
I don't think I have ever asked! You know the saying, "Actions speaking louder than words"? Most times I am with gays so I just wrap my lips around and suck. My advice? Go where the gays are. Bath houses, bars, beaches, video stores.

By _avg_ at 06,Apr,13 20:35 other posts of _avg_ 
Well, first, you have to use your diaphragm, tongue and mouth to form words out of the noises you make, then you string together the words "Can I suck your cock?" with an inquisitive inflection. Sounds tricky, but it's really that simple!

Warning: take your audience into consideration!!

By #362273 at 26,Mar,13 03:48
This is exactly my dilema, how do I ask another guy if I can suck his cock? I do not want to ruin a friendship if the guy is not receptive and I do not really want to approach a stranger. I look at cocks on-line and really want to try both jacking another guy off and sucking his cock. Help!
By #182552 at 03,Apr,13 02:02
You should ask someone here thats looking to get head from another man.Or place an ad on craigs list,require pics, a public meet,get to know them first.I've sucked a lot of cocks that way,still do.I love sucking cock.

By #361268 at 18,Mar,13 21:43
I just let people suck mine if they wish it is a lot of fun

By #364116 at 17,Mar,13 21:56
Just build up to it I think. Let him see yours if you have an opportunity, and look at his if he gives you one. Then maybe play with yours a bit while looking at him/his... get a nice bulging erection in your pants and see what he does. Things like that. It isn't hard. Well it is, LOL.
By tb1 at 18,Mar,13 20:35 other posts of tb1 
hey I'm getting a stiffie, thanks crownroyal

By boc at 12,Nov,11 17:17 other posts of boc 
You can tatoo an advertisement on your forehead.

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